3. “I’d be happier alone or with someone else.”
Happiness is a good thing BUT throwing away your marriage in the pursuit of it is a very bad thing. One of the most dangerous lies in our culture is the myth that the “pursuit of happiness” is more important than our integrity, our family, our commitments, or any other factor. Ironically, those who buy into this myth of chasing happiness usually end up as very unhappy people.
#4 reveals an important and dangerous myth about “compatibility”...