5. Most people have some sexual “baggage” that they haven’t fully discussed with their spouse. Bringing this out into the open could lead to a positive breakthrough in your sex life and in your marriage.
I’ve interacted with married couples for years, and I’ve found that there are a lot of sexual secrets spouses keep from each other. Some of these secrets are the result of past abuse and some are the result of past choices. Some of these secrets can also stem from fantasies that one spouse is afraid to say out loud for fear of judgment or rejection. The bottom line is that you need to talk about all of these things with your spouse. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy. If you want to grow closer to your spouse inside and outside the bedroom, bring your secrets out into the open and encourage him/her to do the same.
#6 reveals how your thoughts impact your sex life…