6. Checking out other women won’t “spice up” your marriage. It will harm your marriage.
Some men believe this myth that they can get aroused looking at women or images of women and then take all that excitement and arousal into the marriage and use it to get closer to his wife. It simply doesn’t work that way. You might have an initial surge of sexual energy in your marriage after looking at porn or fantasizing about other women, but it’s a false sensation that isn’t sustainable and it isn’t healthy because it essentially invites someone else into your bedroom and violates the sacredness of your marriage. It will eventually bring real and lasting harm to you and to your wife.
#7 is perhaps the most obvious and egregious reason of all…
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