3. His AMBITIONS (and/or goals)…
Most guys measure success in quantifiable terms. We attach a numerical value to it. We like trophies. We like sports and video games because there are actual points involved and a “win” is clearly defined. This is one of the reasons why some men will tragically neglect what truly matters most (family, relationships, etc.) in pursuit of financial wealth and career advancement. We can “measure” success by dollars and promotions in a way that we can’t quantify as easily at home. A man will feel like he’s “winning” at home primarily when he feels respected at home. When he feels respected at home, he’ll be less tempted to find his identity in shallow pursuits like money and hobbies. (Men, as a challenge to you and to me, let’s never value pursuits or possessions ahead of people. Our families deserve our best; not our leftovers! Any success that happens at the expense of our families is NOT real success!)
Here’s what you need to know about his SENSE OF HUMOR (and why it’s more important than you think)…