Why pastors can never be real
When a pastor confesses weakness to another person, he hands that person a weapon. That weapon can later be used to destroy his ministry and family.
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Why the bathroom wars have men in a lather
The new bathroom policy angers men because it strips them of their ancient protector role. To make things worse, any man who expresses concern for his daughter’s privacy is labeled a bigot. Men can’t shield their loved ones – and they’re publicly shamed if they try.
How the sexual purity movement drives young men from church
Guys want frank, biblical teaching when it comes to sex and relationships. They don’t want “the yeast of the Pharisees.”
How we screen young men out of church
Children of every kind come into the church. They are screened through children’s ministry and youth ministry. These programs remove the ones who are poorly suited to church culture.
Why Christian men are playing the field
Christian men can postpone marriage – and they know it. The numbers are in their favor.
Forgiveness for fools
What do we do with a man who claims to follow Jesus, falls into temptation, even positions himself to sin, but does not succeed?
Why extramarital sex is suddenly OK
We tend to see the “sexual revolution” as something new. It is not. We are merely reverting to the loose and varied sexual practices that prevailed for millennia in preliterate societies.
Why gay is suddenly OK
Why have most civilizations been hostile toward homosexuality? Why does the Bible call it “an abomination?” Why is the modern world suddenly accepting this long forbidden practice? And what impact will this have on the church and its men?
Marriage will be ruled unconstitutional
There’s a growing movement in our country to scrap marriage altogether, or to privatize the institution – allowing couples to draft legal contracts that specify the terms of their unions. How will the church and its men respond?