Why society cares less about men
Here are four reasons both men and women have a hard time perceiving male suffering. Many are deeply rooted in human culture. Read More
Church growth: are men more important than women?
When it comes to growing a church, which gender counts more? Read More
Use the 10-10 format to teach men
Whenever I speak to men’s retreats, I use a 10-10 format. I speak for about 10 minutes – then the men discuss questions for 10 minutes. The results have been astounding. Read More
Why Men Don’t Share Feelings (Part 2)
Most men do not tell their wives what they really feel because if they did, their wives would punish them for it. Read More
Why Men Don’t Share Their Feelings (Part 1)
Men are trained from a young age to deny their true feelings. Complete this phrase: “Big boys don’t __________.” Read More
Are Christians obsessed with sex?
Christians can’t ignore sex because nobody can ignore sex. It’s everywhere. Read More
Will marriage change gays – or will gays change marriage?
What happens when straight men see their married gay brethren continuing to enjoy the sexual salad bar? Will straight husbands happily restrain their desires while this special class of married men continues to sow its wild oats? Read More
Why men aren’t stepping up
Men just aren’t as important as they once were. Suddenly, society can get along quite well with just a handful of them. Read More
How to pray aloud like a man
Have you ever noticed that Christians speak normally to one another, but when they speak to aloud to God they lapse into a strange language and tone? I call this “prayer-speak” and it’s epidemic in evangelical churches today. Read More
Help me reinvent men’s ministry
Almost every church that launches a men’s program meets with failure. There’s clearly room for a new approach to men’s ministry – or perhaps an ancient one. Read More