Advice: My Male Co-Workers Argued with Me While I was Performing Surgery

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 2, 2015

Dear Shaunti: As the new medical director at a large hospital and top surgeon, I am a qualified woman with excellent experience in the medical field and in management. But I seem to be having a really hard time with…

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If You Don’t Want Your Colleagues to See You as "Mommy," Stop Airing Your Dirty Laundry

By Shaunti Feldhahn on February 9, 2015

Dear Shaunti, I am back in the workforce after ten years as a stay-at-home mom, and I know my experience juggling kids has prepared me well for my new project manager job. After all, before 7 am each morning alone,…

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Tell Your Drama to Your Mama (or Your Girlfriends)

By Shaunti Feldhahn on December 29, 2014

Dear Shaunti: I’m always balancing my roles as a mom, wife and businesswoman, but I work almost entirely with men who don’t “get” how much more I have to juggle than they do—especially when there’s a problem at home. I…

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My Eyes are Up Here: Can I Be Seen as Pretty AND Professional?

By Shaunti Feldhahn on December 1, 2014

Dear Shaunti: I am a female attorney, age 29, working at a large and prestigious litigation firm. I have a law degree from a top-five school, graduated near the top of my class, am smart, experienced and able to handle…

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She Values Your Time More than Your Cash

By Shaunti Feldhahn on June 16, 2014

Dear Shaunti,

For years now, my wife has been talking about how great it would be to rent a condo and spend a full week in a cottage at the beach. So for her birthday I surprised her with reservations for fall break. She was so excited – until she learned that I agreed to take an extra shift at work this summer to pay for it. She keeps complaining that I will miss family time while the kids are out of school. I’m busting my tail for something she wants… and she’s complaining. I have to tell my boss next week what my schedule will be, and I don’t know what to do.

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