She Values Your Time More than Your Cash

By Shaunti Feldhahn on June 16, 2014

Dear Shaunti,

For years now, my wife has been talking about how great it would be to rent a condo and spend a full week in a cottage at the beach. So for her birthday I surprised her with reservations for fall break. She was so excited – until she learned that I agreed to take an extra shift at work this summer to pay for it. She keeps complaining that I will miss family time while the kids are out of school. I’m busting my tail for something she wants… and she’s complaining. I have to tell my boss next week what my schedule will be, and I don’t know what to do.

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Being the Bigger Person in "The Little Things": Showing Your Wife that You Care

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 20, 2014

Dear Shaunti, I work long hours at a power plant, and my wife often sends me text messages or calls me about little issues happening that day. Like, a minor problem she’s having at the house. Or that our daughter…

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2 Ways Flex-Time Moms Can Prevent Resentment from Male Co-Workers

By Shaunti Feldhahn on January 28, 2014

Dear Shaunti,

I work full-time, have 3 small children and work a flex schedule. This works really well for my family but my male co-workers get frustrated when they can’t reach me during traditional office hours. I’m getting all my work done but I’m worried they’re not viewing me as an equal colleague because they don’t always see me in the office.

–Trying to Find the Balance

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