3 Surprising Reasons to Initiate Sex With Your Man

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 13, 2017

Although this article is for women, I’m sure some astonished men are looking in, and asking, “What do you mean why you should initiate sex?!” To guys, the answer is completely obvious! It reminds me of that line from the…

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Kiss and Make Up? Not So Fast.

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 4, 2017

So, guys, you’ve just had a big fight with your wife and now you’re ready to cool off and mend the relationship. What better way to make up than to spend a little intimate time together, right? Just one little…

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Wives, Fill Up Your Husband’s Mental Instagram

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 27, 2017

Dear Shaunti: I read your book, For Women Only, and one thing you said scared me. You explained how men can’t not notice a woman with a good figure, but that many men try to look away so they don’t…

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6 Tips From Coaches: How to Be a Good Sports Parent

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 25, 2017

The other day at a huge high school sports event, I watched a large, loud dad yelling at a ref. On the sidelines, the coach looked furious. Being abusive to an official not only models terrible behavior; it’s a terrible…

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How to Respect Your Husband When You Really Don’t Trust Him

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 18, 2017

Dear Shaunti, I recently read For Women Only and I now realize how important it is for my husband to know I respect him – which I do. But I come from a long line of “strong women” (as my dad puts…

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Are Legos Just for Boys? It’s Complicated

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 8, 2017

One of the things that years of research with men and women, boys and girls, has taught me is that the genders are just (gasp!) different. It always stuns me when people push back against this idea – as if…

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Husband-Speak: How to Transform His World With Your Words

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 6, 2017

Imagine a springtime shower without the gentle sound of rain. Or a baseball game without that CRACK of the bat. Or imagine a world where children smile but don’t laugh, friends wave but don’t speak, dogs don’t bark and birds…

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Make Sure Your Man Is One of the 25%

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 30, 2017

Ladies, do you love your husband, but find yourself regularly irritated by that little thing that he does? He’s a great guy and all, but Ugh! If he would only stop parking in the mud when he takes the kids…

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How to Regain His Love and Restore Your Relationship

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 25, 2017

Dear Shaunti, My husband and I have been married 5 years and I love him, but we’ve been arguing a lot lately.  We both work a lot and have two children, so we spend a good bit of time apart.…

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Make Your Husband Happy With the Next-Day Rule

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 24, 2017

Ladies, imagine that as part of your dream job or volunteer work, you are offered a project that is really exciting, and could also earn you a very welcome financial bonus. You step up to do it. Eager to please…

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