6 Reasons Sarcasm Kills Relationships

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 14, 2017

There are two types of people in the world: those with the quick zinger and the envious wannabes. I’ve always wished I was more quick-witted at pulling out the perfect sarcastic remark when joking with my friends. But I don’t…

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Avoid divorce with this simple recipe for a happy marriage

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 1, 2017

I love that social science now regularly disproves this long-held belief of our culture: that if you are very unhappy in your marriage, it’s better to be realistic and just move on.  Because there is very little chance that you…

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Why You Need to Start the 30-Day Kindness Challenge TODAY!

By Shaunti Feldhahn on January 16, 2017

Today (January 16, 2017) marks a big day: the launch of the 30-Day Kindness Challenge nationwide! Although you can start it at any time – and will see a marked improvement in your relationships if you do – we encourage…

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Want More Joy in Your Life and Relationships? Follow These Three Simple Steps

By Shaunti Feldhahn on January 10, 2017

Does your mother-in-law make you want to pull your hair out by criticizing every move you make? Maybe your wife doesn’t appreciate all the things you do for your family, or it’s your husband who takes you for granted and…

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Join Me Tonight for a Major Announcement on Facebook Live

By Shaunti Feldhahn on December 20, 2016

MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT TONIGHT AT 8 pm ET VIA FACEBOOK LIVE! You know those days when you are so excited about something, you’ve just gotta tell somebody? That is how I feel about what is going on with the new book…

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4 Ways to Keep your Temper When You Want to Blow

By Shaunti Feldhahn on December 15, 2016

While doing some research for my next book, I realized something important: when we are angry, most of us handle it wrong! Here are four ways to keep ourselves from (forgive the Marvel reference) turning into a big green rage…

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Proof that Church Attendance Matters

By Shaunti Feldhahn on December 8, 2016

I don’t have a lot of pet peeves. But one of the few is when people quote the old urban legend, “Well, you know, the rate of divorce is the same in the church.” Which is one I debunked in…

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3 Ways to Rebuild Family Bridges Over the Holidays

By Shaunti Feldhahn on November 24, 2016

You know those college-football bumper magnets that say “A house divided?” Perhaps she supports University of Michigan, he’s a rabid Michigan State guy. Maybe it’s Alabama vs. Auburn.  Or USC – UCLA. Regardless, the couple has to learn to get…

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Processing after a fight? It’s different for men — here’s why

By Shaunti Feldhahn on November 2, 2016

Dear Shaunti, I feel like my husband is a total avoider. When we get into an argument, all he wants to do is ignore the situation and escape to the TV room. He doesn’t care that we need to talk…

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Why the “Married Sex” Video Makes Me Furious

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 24, 2016

Recently, someone asked what I think about the “Married Sex During the Week” video posted on Facebook and chortled about on social media.  Have you seen it?  Some women think it’s hysterical. I haven’t found a single man who does.…

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