How to Stop Male Co-Workers’ Resentment … When You Work Flex-Time

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 13, 2017

Dear Shaunti,  I work full-time, have 3 small children and work a flex schedule. This works really well for my family but my male co-workers get frustrated when they can’t reach me during traditional office hours. I’m getting all my…

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The Foreign Culture of a Man’s Mind and How to Navigate It 

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 1, 2017

Sometimes working with men can be very much like working in an unknown culture.

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Every Work-From-Home Parent’s Hilarious Nightmare

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 15, 2017

So there you are, in your best suit, giving a Skype video presentation in your best professional manner – and thankful that the people on the other end can’t tell you are doing it all from a home office. After…

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Advice: My Male Co-Workers Argued with Me While I was Performing Surgery

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 2, 2015

Dear Shaunti: As the new medical director at a large hospital and top surgeon, I am a qualified woman with excellent experience in the medical field and in management. But I seem to be having a really hard time with…

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Tell Your Drama to Your Mama (or Your Girlfriends)

By Shaunti Feldhahn on December 29, 2014

Dear Shaunti: I’m always balancing my roles as a mom, wife and businesswoman, but I work almost entirely with men who don’t “get” how much more I have to juggle than they do—especially when there’s a problem at home. I…

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My Eyes are Up Here: Can I Be Seen as Pretty AND Professional?

By Shaunti Feldhahn on December 1, 2014

Dear Shaunti: I am a female attorney, age 29, working at a large and prestigious litigation firm. I have a law degree from a top-five school, graduated near the top of my class, am smart, experienced and able to handle…

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Connection Resurrection: Bringing Back The Spark

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 25, 2014

Dear Shaunti: I’ve been married for 15 years, and my wife is a great mom, a great wife, and my best friend. I feel like things are going great. My wife, on the other hand, has started telling me that…

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Why Your Male Co-Worker May Be Annoyed at You

By Shaunti Feldhahn on April 14, 2014

Dear Shaunti, I just got out of a big meeting where one of my male co-workers got super annoyed with me and I don’t know why. We’re trying to land a big contract and he was presenting his strategy to…

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Looking for Approval? Start By Praising Your Provider Husband

By Shaunti Feldhahn on February 20, 2014

Dear Shaunti, I’m a working mom with two kids. We have a comfortable lifestyle, no major financial problems — just the typical mortgage and monthly bills — and I just got a big raise at work. Still, my husband seems…

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