Don’t forget this simple way to make your wife happy

By Shaunti Feldhahn on April 18, 2017

Dear Shaunti, I’m in hot water. My wife is the most beautiful, amazing woman I know. (I’m sure she’d tell you otherwise, but it’s true.) But I just don’t talk a lot, and it is hard for me to remember to…

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Husbands, get in the habit of telling your wife she is beautiful.

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 11, 2016

Every little girl dreams of finding her prince and knowing she is his princess. Husbands, you need to know that even after years of marriage, your wife probably still has some of that little girl inside. A little girl who…

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Men, Avoid This Sneaky Trap That Will Kill Your Marriage

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 25, 2016

Last week, speaking primarily to women, we revealed the sneaky trap that will quietly but efficiently kill any marriage: Never, ever, ever think your spouse “shouldn’t” be hurt by something that wouldn’t hurt you. The same trap can and often…

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Will My Man Love Me Even When I Act Unlovable?

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 13, 2016

Several people have passed along this hilarious GIF – but have also wondered why it strikes such a chord to see a little girl’s ugly tantrum and the caption “I need a man who loves me even when I act…

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3 Reasons Your Wife Plays Games Instead of Telling You What She Wants

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 7, 2016

Not long ago, someone we know got engaged via a multi-stage, elaborate proposal that had clearly taken an immense amount of thought and effort.  A mutual friend, upon hearing the story, told him, “Good job.  Only 9,999,999 tests left to…

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Men: This one little movie moment touches your wife’s heart – and shows you how you can, too

By Shaunti Feldhahn on April 26, 2016

There’s a very short scene in the 2015 live-action Cinderella movie that secretly touches the heart of almost every woman, and gives every guy a roadmap to doing the same with his wife.

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Men: Want to make your wife insanely happy? Try this one phrase.

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 31, 2016

Men: Want to make your wife insanely happy? Try this one phrase. The man sidled up to me at one of our recent marriage conferences, and was clearly trying to ask a question before his wife noticed.  “So I say…

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A sincere plea from someone who doesn’t want to see Kardashian’s nude selfie but isn’t a "slut shamer"

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 16, 2016

In today’s culture, you are either a “slut shamer” or “celebrating a woman’s body” through nude selfies. Isn’t there middle ground?

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Some hysterical memes about the differences between men and women

By Shaunti Feldhahn on January 27, 2016

People always send me memes about the differences between men and women.  Some of them are too raunchy to post, but this one was (fairly) tame and made me laugh out loud.  Mostly because A) it fits so well with…

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Men: Four phrases that make you a hero to your wife

By Shaunti Feldhahn on January 19, 2016

Guys, I know from the For Men Only research that you want to make your wife happy.  And in many ways you already do!  But if you want to hit the happiness jackpot, here are the four phrases that (in roughly…

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