Love and Laughter: How Humor Can Ease Relationship Tension

By Shaunti Feldhahn on November 8, 2017

Learn what is guaranteed to elicit a smile from your partner. When tensions run high, a random act of silliness can lighten the mood.

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Does Your Kid Make You Feel Like You Can Do Nothing Right?

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 27, 2017

(a special guest post by Debbie Hitchcock) Last week I felt like everything I did for one of my kids was met with sarcasm, frustration, or anger. The typical jokes we had between us, the acts of kindness I did, and…

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Motive Matters: Believing the Best of Your Spouse

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 17, 2017

Dear Shaunti, In one of your books, you say it’s important to believe the best of your spouse’s intentions. But all that does is give your spouse license to hurt you again and again without consequences. Who cares what their…

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Big Fight? What Every Husband Needs to Know

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 20, 2017

Men, have you ever found yourself feeling frustrated when, after a fight with your wife, she seems to doubt your relationship and commitment? It made perfect sense to you that you stopped talking to her when you were mad. You…

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Make Sure Your Man Is One of the 25%

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 30, 2017

Ladies, do you love your husband, but find yourself regularly irritated by that little thing that he does? He’s a great guy and all, but Ugh! If he would only stop parking in the mud when he takes the kids…

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The Secret to Living With Purpose Every Day

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 28, 2017

As a busy analyst, author, and speaker my days are full so it can be easy to lose track of time. As a wife to my husband, Jeff and a mom to our two great kids, I have to protect…

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How to Effectively Boost Your Son’s Back-to-School Confidence

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 8, 2017

I just dropped off my 14-year-old son for the start of new year, at a brand-new new school. I had a lump in my throat, knowing how nervous he was about this new season. Every year brings a new set…

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4 Secrets in Your Man’s Heart (That You Need to Know)

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 26, 2017

Ladies, if you could improve your relationship with your man by applying a few simple truths, would you?  Seriously: think about that question. Because I’ve found in my research with thousands of men for For Women Only, that the things…

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4 Ways to Spark More Romance in Your Relationship

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 10, 2017

Ladies, have you been wishing your husband were more Prince Charming and a little less Homer Simpson lately? Been daydreaming that someday he would plan a special evening for just the two of you? But then is your next thought,…

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The Secret to Being a Wife He Adores

By Shaunti Feldhahn on June 19, 2017

In the research for For Women Only and The Kindness Challenge, I’ve seen an overlooked, seemingly old-fashioned secret. If you want to be a wife that your husband adores, practice using an affirming tone and eliminating a contentious one. Tweet…

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