Finally Kill the Never-Ending Cycle of the Grumpy Husband – Forever

By Shaunti Feldhahn on May 3, 2017

Dear Shaunti: My husband is an involved dad, a leader at our church, the type of guy people look to for advice, and he goes over and above his requirements on the job. But he is often grumpy and withdrawn…

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Two Things You Need to Know About Yourself

By Shaunti Feldhahn on May 1, 2017

If you’re reading this, I can tell you two things about yourself. First: You think you’re a kind person. Kindness matters to you. You work at being kind, and you do not like the unkindness of others, or how harsh…

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What NOT to Say to Your Man – Ever

By Shaunti Feldhahn on April 21, 2017

Ladies, if there were a reality TV show like “What NOT to Wear,” but for relationships, these three things would be at the top of the list for “What NOT to say to your man.”  Now, don’t get me wrong;…

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This Particular Feeling is EXCRUCIATING for Men

By Shaunti Feldhahn on April 12, 2017

Dear Shaunti: My husband is great at many things, but sometimes he struggles with getting a new task accomplished. Like, he’s great at carpentry, but it might take him two or three days to figure out how to create a…

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3 Ways Viewing Porn Harms Your Wife

By Shaunti Feldhahn on April 7, 2017

Men, in more than a dozen years of research about how guys privately think about things like sex and porn use, I’ve seen a striking pattern. Although nearly all men are visually tempted today, and many hate and struggle against…

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Husband acting grumpy and withdrawn? You can change that!

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 31, 2017

Ladies, does your man seem to be doing everything right outside of the house, but at home he is often grumpy and withdrawn? Does he seem to be pleasant to everyone but you? Does he get upset over the littlest…

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Every woman desperately wants to hear this essential phrase

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 29, 2017

Every little girl dreams of finding her prince and knowing she is his princess. Husbands, you need to know that even after years of marriage, your wife probably still has some of that little girl inside. A little girl who…

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3 Powerful Life Lessons From a World War II Veteran

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 28, 2017

My husband and his whole family stood vigil by a hospice bedside last week. It was an honor guard for a great man as he stepped out of this life and into another. My father-in-law was a simple man, yet…

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Avoid Divorce With This Simple Recipe for a Happy Marriage

By Shaunti Feldhahn on March 1, 2017

I love that social science now regularly disproves this long-held belief of our culture: that if you are very unhappy in your marriage, it’s better to be realistic and just move on.  Because there is very little chance that you…

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Processing After a Fight? It’s Different for Men – Here’s Why

By Shaunti Feldhahn on November 2, 2016

Dear Shaunti, I feel like my husband is a total avoider. When we get into an argument, all he wants to do is ignore the situation and escape to the TV room. He doesn’t care that we need to talk…

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