5 Steps to Make Your Marriage Explode (in a Good Way!)

By Shaunti Feldhahn on November 14, 2017

Assume the best of your spouse’s intentions toward you: in other words, that your spouse really does love you, respect you, and wants the best for you.

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Love and Laughter: How Humor Can Ease Relationship Tension

By Shaunti Feldhahn on November 8, 2017

Learn what is guaranteed to elicit a smile from your partner. When tensions run high, a random act of silliness can lighten the mood.

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Transform Your Relationship With This One Simple Rule

By Shaunti Feldhahn on November 6, 2017

In our research with men, it was clear that one of a man’s most painful feelings comes when he tries to do something and then gets the sense that he’s inadequate: that his wife has examined him and found him wanting.

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Providing For a Family? It’s About More Than Money

By Shaunti Feldhahn on November 2, 2017

As women’s earning power has changed over the last fifty years, so have marriage dynamics – and having a great relationship means knowing how to handle the new normal. According to a 2013 Pew Research study, among married couples in 1960,…

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Want a happy marriage? 3 Ways to Nix All Marriage Negativity

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 23, 2017

There’s a couple I know who just seems to have their act together. They’re a joy to be around and it’s obvious that they genuinely like being around each other, too! No, they’re not perfect (they have kids and jobs…

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3 Surprising Reasons to Initiate Sex With Your Man

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 13, 2017

Although this article is for women, I’m sure some astonished men are looking in, and asking, “What do you mean why you should initiate sex?!” To guys, the answer is completely obvious! It reminds me of that line from the…

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How Healthy He Is Matters to Her

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 6, 2017

I don’t think there are many who would be surprised to hear that in my interviews and surveys with over 1,000 men for my book For Women Only, men emphatically stated that it had an emotional impact to see that…

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Want More Romance? The 4 Things That Should Be On Your “Don’t Do” List

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 5, 2017

Who doesn’t love a good “To Do” list? I make them for everything…chores around the house, work related projects, doctor’s appointments — even things to put on future “To Do” lists! (Yes, I know that is a bit OCD…) But…

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Wives, Fill Up Your Husband’s Mental Instagram

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 27, 2017

Dear Shaunti: I read your book, For Women Only, and one thing you said scared me. You explained how men can’t not notice a woman with a good figure, but that many men try to look away so they don’t…

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How to Respect Your Husband When You Really Don’t Trust Him

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 18, 2017

Dear Shaunti, I recently read For Women Only and I now realize how important it is for my husband to know I respect him – which I do. But I come from a long line of “strong women” (as my dad puts…

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