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Shaunti Feldhahn is the best-selling author of eye-opening, research-based books about men, women and relationships, including For Women Only, For Men Only, the groundbreaking The Good News About Marriage, and her newest book, Through A Man’s Eyes. A Harvard-trained social researcher and popular speaker, her findings are regularly featured in media as diverse as The Today Show, Focus on the Family, and the New York Times. Visit www.shaunti.com for more. Do you want Shaunti to share life-changing truths at your church or event? Inquire about Shaunti speaking, here.


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Proof that Church Attendance Matters

By Shaunti Feldhahn on December 8, 2016

I don’t have a lot of pet peeves. But one of the few is when people quote the old urban legend, “Well, you know, the rate of divorce is the same in the church.” Which is one I debunked in…

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3 Ways to Rebuild Family Bridges Over the Holidays

By Shaunti Feldhahn on November 24, 2016

You know those college-football bumper magnets that say “A house divided?” Perhaps she supports University of Michigan, he’s a rabid Michigan State guy. Maybe it’s Alabama vs. Auburn.  Or USC – UCLA. Regardless, the couple has to learn to get…

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Processing after a fight? It’s different for men — here’s why

By Shaunti Feldhahn on November 2, 2016

Dear Shaunti, I feel like my husband is a total avoider. When we get into an argument, all he wants to do is ignore the situation and escape to the TV room. He doesn’t care that we need to talk…

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Why the “Married Sex” Video Makes Me Furious

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 24, 2016

Recently, someone asked what I think about the “Married Sex During the Week” video posted on Facebook and chortled about on social media.  Have you seen it?  Some women think it’s hysterical. I haven’t found a single man who does.…

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The Canadian Video to America That Made Me Cry – And What We Can Learn From It

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 19, 2016

Have you heard the joke: How does someone from Canada cheat on a test?  They secretly write on the palm of their hand, “You can do it!” Our neighbors to the north are an unusually open, honest, nice, kind bunch.…

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Wives, see his anger as a legitimate signal of pain – and address it with respect

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 18, 2016

Every relationship – even the happiest ones! — will have moments of conflict. And how we deal with that conflict can make the relationship stronger…. or really hurt it. Ladies, one of the clearest examples of this is what happens…

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Men, DO THIS to enjoy more sex in your marriage

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 13, 2016

Men: If you want more sex, give her better anticipation time Although some couples are the opposite in this way, in many cases the husband wishes his wife would be eager more often. (Ladies, if you have the higher drive…

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Husbands, get in the habit of telling your wife she is beautiful.

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 11, 2016

Every little girl dreams of finding her prince and knowing she is his princess. Husbands, you need to know that even after years of marriage, your wife probably still has some of that little girl inside. A little girl who…

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Two reasons why he walks away from an emotional conversation

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 4, 2016

A reader recently asked: “Why does my boyfriend always seem to RUN from a conflict?  Well, not so much conflict, as emotion.   When things get intense, especially if I start crying, I need resolution –but he’s heading out the…

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Four things I would tell the woman who called me a “dumb broad”

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 3, 2016

Dear sister,   You say in your angry Amazon review of For Women Only and For Men Only, that a therapist recommended the books to help your failing marriage. Yet the For Women Only research has, in your view, made…

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