About this author:
Shaunti Feldhahn is the best-selling author of eye-opening, research-based books about men, women and relationships, includingFor Women Only, For Men Only, the groundbreaking The Good News About Marriage,and her newest book, The Kindness Challenge, which is launching a much-needed, national movement of kindness called the 30-Day Kindness Challenge. A Harvard-trained social researcher and popular speaker, her ﬁndings are regularly featured in media as diverse as The Today Show, Focus on the Family, and the New York Times. Visit www.shaunti.com for more.Do you want Shaunti to share life-changing truths at your church or event?Inquire about Shaunti speaking, here.
All articles by Shaunti Feldhahn
What NOT to say to your man – ever.
Ladies, if there were a reality TV show like “What NOT to Wear,” but for relationships, these three things would be at the top of the list for “What NOT to say to your man.” Now, don’t get me wrong;… Read More
Don’t forget this simple way to make your wife happy
Dear Shaunti, I’m in hot water. My wife is the most beautiful, amazing woman I know. (I’m sure she’d tell you otherwise, but it’s true.) But I just don’t talk a lot, and it is hard for me to remember to… Read More
This particular feeling is EXCRUCIATING for men
Dear Shaunti: My husband is great at many things, but sometimes he struggles with getting a new task accomplished. Like, he’s great at carpentry, but it might take him two or three days to figure out how to create a… Read More
3 ways viewing porn harms your wife
Men, in more than a dozen years of research about how guys privately think about things like sex and porn use, I’ve seen a striking pattern. Although nearly all men are visually tempted today, and many hate and struggle against… Read More
How to respond to teenager attitude without losing your mind
Not that this ever happens. But every now and then our kids (girls and boys) might perhaps display a little attitude. Perhaps it’s an eye roll, a derisive tone, a sudden disrespectful temper. Whatever it is, it’s almost guaranteed to… Read More
Husband acting grumpy and withdrawn? You can change that!
Ladies, does your man seem to be doing everything right outside of the house, but at home he is often grumpy and withdrawn? Does he seem to be pleasant to everyone but you? Does he get upset over the littlest… Read More
Every woman desperately wants to hear this essential phrase
Every little girl dreams of finding her prince and knowing she is his princess. Husbands, you need to know that even after years of marriage, your wife probably still has some of that little girl inside. A little girl who… Read More
3 Powerful Life Lessons From a World War II Veteran
My husband and his whole family stood vigil by a hospice bedside last week. It was an honor guard for a great man as he stepped out of this life and into another. My father-in-law was a simple man, yet… Read More
Dads, say this to your daughters.
Dads, we know you love your daughter. And you know you love your daughter. But you might be surprised at much she needs to hear it. In the research with teens and preteens for For Parents Only, I found that… Read More
Three steps to seeing how mean you really are
Have you seen the video of people, wearing white or black shirts, passing a basketball back and forth? Viewers must count how many times the ball is passed by those in white shirts. And even though they are concentrating, they… Read More