About this author:

Shaunti Feldhahn is the best-selling author of eye-opening, research-based books about men, women and relationships, includingFor Women Only, For Men Only, the groundbreaking The Good News About Marriage,and her newest book, The Kindness Challenge, which is launching a much-needed, national movement of kindness called the 30-Day Kindness Challenge. A Harvard-trained social researcher and popular speaker, her findings are regularly featured in media as diverse as The Today Show, Focus on the Family, and the New York Times. Visit www.shaunti.com for more.Do you want Shaunti to share life-changing truths at your church or event?Inquire about Shaunti speaking, here.

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How to Surprise Your Wife In Ways That Will Delight Her

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 14, 2017

Men, have you ever been surprised when you’ve tried to surprise your wife? I heard just such a story recently, and I’ll bet you can feel this guy’s pain. Even though baseball tickets at the new stadium were WAY out of…

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How to Effectively Boost Your Son’s Back-to-School Confidence

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 8, 2017

I just dropped off my 14-year-old son for the start of new year, at a brand-new new school. I had a lump in my throat, knowing how nervous he was about this new season. Every year brings a new set…

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What You Need to Survive the Flight from Hell (Featuring a Screaming Baby)

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 1, 2017

Have you ever been in this awkward situation – and wondered what on earth to do? I write this from 30,000 feet, heading home to my family. And about 5 rows behind me, there’s a very unhappy 20-month old. Actually…

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4 Secrets in Your Man’s Heart (That You Need to Know)

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 26, 2017

Ladies, if you could improve your relationship with your man by applying a few simple truths, would you?  Seriously: think about that question. Because I’ve found in my research with thousands of men for For Women Only, that the things…

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When He Denies Needing Your Help, Here’s Why

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 21, 2017

Ladies, has your man ever refused to admit that he should go see a doctor or claimed that he knows where he’s going when he is clearly lost? He’s not alone. A man will typically insist that “he’s fine,” that…

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5 Reasons To Leave The Lights On For Sex

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 19, 2017

Yes, the idea is scary for many women! But in my years of social research, I have uncovered many truths that men wish we knew, but they don’t know how to tell us. And, I heard the heart behind this…

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3 Sneaky Ways You’re Making Yourself Stressed

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 17, 2017

Do you have any idea what is the most frequent command in the Bible?  Believe it or not, it is not to “love one another” (although that’s up there!). Instead, the most frequent command — used more than 70 times —…

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3 Simple Compliments That Will Please Your Wife

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 12, 2017

Husbands, do you want to know what goes on inside your wife’s head? And do you wish there was something that you could say to make her feel deeply loved? While I cannot tell you everything she thinks, I can assure…

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4 Ways to Spark More Romance in Your Relationship

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 10, 2017

Ladies, have you been wishing your husband were more Prince Charming and a little less Homer Simpson lately? Been daydreaming that someday he would plan a special evening for just the two of you? But then is your next thought,…

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Sex and Men’s True Hidden Desire

By Shaunti Feldhahn on July 6, 2017

Wives, does your husband want sex…again? It’s not just a physical need — it’s also about emotions. Here are three things he’s not saying out loud when he comes to you for sex: Pages: 1 2 3 4

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