About this author:

Shaunti Feldhahn is the best-selling author of eye-opening, research-based books about men, women and relationships, includingFor Women Only, For Men Only, the groundbreaking The Good News About Marriage,and her newest book, The Kindness Challenge, which is launching a much-needed, national movement of kindness called the 30-Day Kindness Challenge. A Harvard-trained social researcher and popular speaker, her findings are regularly featured in media as diverse as The Today Show, Focus on the Family, and the New York Times. Visit www.shaunti.com for more.Do you want Shaunti to share life-changing truths at your church or event?Inquire about Shaunti speaking, here.

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Big Fight? What Every Husband Needs to Know

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 20, 2017

Men, have you ever found yourself feeling frustrated when, after a fight with your wife, she seems to doubt your relationship and commitment? It made perfect sense to you that you stopped talking to her when you were mad. You…

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How to Respect Your Husband When You Really Don’t Trust Him

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 18, 2017

Dear Shaunti, I recently read For Women Only and I now realize how important it is for my husband to know I respect him – which I do. But I come from a long line of “strong women” (as my dad puts…

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Hurricane Hotties?

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 14, 2017

In the midst of so much deep hurricane news, can I tell you how happy this latest viral silliness made me and my teenage daughter – and apparently millions of other people? More than 100,000 comments have been posted on…

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How to Stop Male Co-Workers’ Resentment … When You Work Flex-Time

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 13, 2017

Dear Shaunti,  I work full-time, have 3 small children and work a flex schedule. This works really well for my family but my male co-workers get frustrated when they can’t reach me during traditional office hours. I’m getting all my…

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The Shock Value of the Competent Dad

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 11, 2017

I remember a couple of years ago around Mother’s Day, Jeff and I were watching television one night when we saw a commercial for Publix, one of the big grocery-store chains in our area. The television ad showed several scenes…

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Are Legos Just for Boys? It’s Complicated

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 8, 2017

One of the things that years of research with men and women, boys and girls, has taught me is that the genders are just (gasp!) different. It always stuns me when people push back against this idea – as if…

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Husband-Speak: How to Transform His World With Your Words

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 6, 2017

Imagine a springtime shower without the gentle sound of rain. Or a baseball game without that CRACK of the bat. Or imagine a world where children smile but don’t laugh, friends wave but don’t speak, dogs don’t bark and birds…

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The Foreign Culture of a Man’s Mind and How to Navigate It 

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 1, 2017

Sometimes working with men can be very much like working in an unknown culture.

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Make Sure Your Man Is One of the 25%

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 30, 2017

Ladies, do you love your husband, but find yourself regularly irritated by that little thing that he does? He’s a great guy and all, but Ugh! If he would only stop parking in the mud when he takes the kids…

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The Secret to Living With Purpose Every Day

By Shaunti Feldhahn on August 28, 2017

As a busy analyst, author, and speaker my days are full so it can be easy to lose track of time. As a wife to my husband, Jeff and a mom to our two great kids, I have to protect…

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