Why the “Married Sex” Video Makes Me Furious

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 24, 2016

Recently, someone asked what I think about the “Married Sex During the Week” video posted on Facebook and chortled about on social media.  Have you seen it?  Some women think it’s hysterical. I haven’t found a single man who does.…

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The Canadian Video to America That Made Me Cry – And What We Can Learn From It

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 19, 2016

Have you heard the joke: How does someone from Canada cheat on a test?  They secretly write on the palm of their hand, “You can do it!” Our neighbors to the north are an unusually open, honest, nice, kind bunch.…

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Wives, see his anger as a legitimate signal of pain – and address it with respect

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 18, 2016

Every relationship – even the happiest ones! — will have moments of conflict. And how we deal with that conflict can make the relationship stronger…. or really hurt it. Ladies, one of the clearest examples of this is what happens…

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Men, DO THIS to enjoy more sex in your marriage

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 13, 2016

Men: If you want more sex, give her better anticipation time Although some couples are the opposite in this way, in many cases the husband wishes his wife would be eager more often. (Ladies, if you have the higher drive…

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Husbands, get in the habit of telling your wife she is beautiful.

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 11, 2016

Every little girl dreams of finding her prince and knowing she is his princess. Husbands, you need to know that even after years of marriage, your wife probably still has some of that little girl inside. A little girl who…

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Two reasons why he walks away from an emotional conversation

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 4, 2016

A reader recently asked: “Why does my boyfriend always seem to RUN from a conflict?  Well, not so much conflict, as emotion.   When things get intense, especially if I start crying, I need resolution –but he’s heading out the…

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Four things I would tell the woman who called me a “dumb broad”

By Shaunti Feldhahn on October 3, 2016

Dear sister,   You say in your angry Amazon review of For Women Only and For Men Only, that a therapist recommended the books to help your failing marriage. Yet the For Women Only research has, in your view, made…

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The two most dangerous assumptions women make about relationships

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 29, 2016

After I finished speaking at a recent women’s event, a beautiful woman who I will call Sierra came up to ask me a question.  “How can I get my husband to do anything to improve our relationship?  He has completely…

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Don’t believe the myth — good news about marriage is still out there!

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 27, 2016

Hi everyone – I thought you’d want to see this piece from the Washington Post, which is an encouraging sign that more people are busting the 50% divorce rate myth, and that the positive news continues to get out there.  I…

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Four reasons your man says “I don’t need help” – even when he does

By Shaunti Feldhahn on September 23, 2016

Ladies, whether it is refusing to admit he needs to go to the doctor, or claiming that he knows where he’s going even when he’s clearly lost, a man usually defaults to insisting that he’s fine, it’s all good, he…

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